Unsuccessful, unhappy marriage, relationship with another man ended up in separating from each other, complicated relationship with parents. Hopelessness and depression.
She got married when she was 19, changed religion. The reason for that was to leave her parents and become free and independent. It seemed to her that others put pressure on her, didn't let her do what she wanted, didn't accept her as she was, criticized her. She often did bad things on purpose. But actually she wanted care, protection from her husband as her father who never gave it to her. She imagined that she would have an ideal family, but her husband was a cold, irresponsible and indifferent man. She had to take all the responsibilities for everything at home, in the family and manage everything.
After that she met another man. When her husband got to know about the relationship he made the lover very scared and he left her. He started to be tough, cruel with her and hit her strongly. Her European citizenship was a benefit for him, plus she was very active, successfully earnt money.
After the lover left her she felt herself not needed by anyone, used, not appreciated, having bad luck. A number of problems have been revealed again: relationships with herself, her family, her husband and men in general.
She took a course "Compass for life". Desperation and feeling of hurt often make people do silly things, destroying everything. That was what happened to Nancy. We eliminated those feelings. Nancy became more self dependent, she didn't have to prove anyone, including her parents and her husband, that she had a unique personality.
Now the couple is about to get divorced, but it's better in this case. Nancy will go a new life pass, not the old one when she had to hurt herself and others for the sake of independence, fairness and care.